You Carry More Than Anyone Sees.

A three-day retreat in Sonoma Valley for women ready to set some of that down — September 4–6, application required, spots limited.

I believe lasting change begins when we feel safe enough to be honest. This application is simply the first step—a chance for us to get to know one another and begin creating a community where every woman feels safe, supported, and free to show up exactly as she is.
Labor Day Weekend Friday through Sunday  | Applications close August 28
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You Carry More than Anyone Sees.


 

“I eat last.” “It feels scary to not be needed.” “When someone asked what I do for fun, I didn’t know how to answer.”
Different women. Different lives. The same quiet realization: somewhere along the way, they stopped making enough room for themselves.

The appointments. The deadlines. The groceries and forms. Remembering what everyone needs and anticipating what could go wrong. Keeping things moving at work while keeping things together at home.

And maybe your life is good - or amazing! You certainly love the people you've built it around.

You're just tired of being the person who has to hold all of it.

Labor of Love is a three-day retreat for women who are ready to set some of that weight down—not to escape their lives, but to return to them differently.

Through facilitated reflection, embodied practices, movement, connection and practical tools, you'll have space to reconnect with yourself beneath all the roles and responsibilities.

So that when you go home, you may find yourself:

  • responding instead of snapping when one more thing gets added
  • saying no without spending the next three hours feeling guilty about it
  • noticing what you need before you've already reached empty
  • making decisions from what matters to you instead of what everyone else expects
  • being more present with the people you love because you're not constantly bracing for what's next
  • trusting that everything doesn't have to depend on you for it to be okay
You don't need a different life. You may just need a different way of being inside the one you've built.

 

September 4–6, 2026 · Westerbeke Ranch, Sonoma Valley · $955 including two nights of shared accommodations and all meals · Payment plans available

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Before You Begin


 

This application takes about 5-7 minutes and includes a few reflective questions — take your time.

The application isn't about saying the right thing. It's an invitation to begin the same practice we'll return to throughout the retreat weekend: creating enough safety to tell the truth—especially to ourselves.

Take your time. Trust your instincts. Answer honestly rather than perfectly. Every application is personally reviewed, and I'll be in touch within 3–5 business days with next steps.

A limited number of Founding Circle Scholarships are available and may be requested within the application below. 

Want to learn more before applying? Explore the retreat experience, accommodations, schedule, Early Arrival Circle, investment and payment options, and everything that’s included on the Retreat Details page.

RETREAT FAQ

Before you apply, here are answers to a few of the questions women ask most often.

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Let's begin by getting to know you

 

All responses reviewed and replied to personally. I look forward to hearing from you! ~Alicia